Retail Therapy

By on February 14, 2012

By Babe Hope –

I’m a student of Linda Bacon, PhD, the author of Health at Every Size. Among the brilliant insights she has taught me is the importance of being attentive to the full experience of eating, dressing, and living life! ‘Woulda, shoulda, coulda’ is a waste of time and energy.

Linda’s concept is to use all your senses and sensibilities to embrace the moment fully, because when you’re satisfied, you’re less likely to compensate with behaviors that skirt the desire and actually compromise your well-being. If you’re eating an ice cream sundae, savor it fully, with all your senses. If you’re selecting a plus size woman’s top, love it completely, treat yourself generously.

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So many of us women of a certain age who wear plus size, promise ourselves new clothing when we lose weight, when a special occasion comes around or after we buy something for someone else. Linda would say go out now and buy clothes we feel good wearing, no matter what we weigh and in the right size that we wear today. Seize the present – it’s really all we have.

Taking action allows us to live in the moment, in the body we have today, which is the kind of “presentness” many spiritual disciplines such as meditating on the word, relaxation techniques, and martial arts are built upon. We want to live in the present moment with full awareness, an essential component of truly inhabiting our body. If we accept the present reality of our body, we can focus on how we feel and what we want, and move forward in our life.

So in terms of ‘retail therapy’ – pick one item that is a microcosm of this type of acceptance. Personally, I’m absolutely in love with Ulla Popken’s Beaded Embroidered Trim Tunic  in watermelon.

I love it even more when I notice the details, touch the fabric, hold the color up to my face. I love the lines, the length, the shape, the vibe! YES! This season, this item has become a symbol of the importance of being in love with what I wear and treating myself well.

What makes you say YES to a plus size top?

 

Babe Hope is the author of Pretty Plus: How to Look Sexy, Sensational and Successful No Matter What You Weigh. She is also a blogger and stylist at ullapopken.com. Always overweight, about 12 years ago, three epiphanies changed her paradigm, and she decided to turn the pity party into a pretty party! Her mantra is ‘Feel Good in What You Wear!’ The website: http://www.ullapopken.com/.

About Babe Hope

Babe Hope is the author of Pretty Plus: How to Look Sexy, Sensational and Successful No Matter What You Weigh. She is also a blogger and stylist at ullapopken.com. Always overweight, about 12 years ago, three epiphanies changed her paradigm, and she decided to turn the pity party into a pretty party! Her mantra is 'Feel Good in What You Wear!' The website: http://www.ullapopken.com/.

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Retail Therapy