3 Keys to Living Purpose-Focused in Your Parenting

When it comes to parenting, it can be so easy to focus on our differences. It might even seem impossible to get on the same page. But, when you aim to become purpose-focused in your parenting, it’s a game changer. Despite how big your differences are, it is possible to achieve unity. Here are a few helpful tips:

Welcome your differences

When you welcome your differences it helps you stop focusing on your issues. What can you celebrate about your spouse’s approach? Believe the best about their intentions. After all, no one loves your children more than the two of you and God chose both of you as their parents. God has a purpose in mind that includes the differences you both bring to the table. Agree not to be critical of your spouse during this time, but welcoming.

Shift from thinking about problems to a desired outcome

Determine what you both agree on. What do you both desire? What is the ultimate goal that you truly want together? Find common ground, even if it means you have to keep going to a higher level, such as discussing what kind of legacy you want to leave for your kids.

Stay unified to live to that purpose

Once you have a vision of a desired outcome, work backward to embrace how each one of you plays a part in achieving that goal. Keep the vision in front of you.

Talk about who carries what responsibility and agree on how you can hold each other accountable to align your decisions in parenting to welcome your vision. Leverage your strengths and individual expressions.

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